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30 enero

Reaping The Rewards of Persistence

I have nothing to blog about today, nothing at all. I'm just showing my face, saying a big "hello" to you.
 
It has been a a very productive week of work. I got all my receipts sorted, categorized, entered into spreadsheets on the computer, and tallied, reconciled bank statements, and located all forms and publications needed for completing the task. Everything (almost) is ready for mr.dellgirl to do his part - fill in the information where it belongs on the tax return form.
 
Yesterday I started on my de-clutter and organize campaign. I marked my calendar for Thursday mornings to be "clean-up/de-clutter/organize" day - until 2:00 pm. If I stay on schedule, I should have that under control in a matter of weeks. We'll see.
 
Still nothing interesting comes to mind to blog about. So, I'll sign off with the knowledge that having gotten so much done the past few weeks feels really great. My only reward, it is done. I don't have to face that challenge later. Yeeaaaa for persistence (although some call it stubborness). It does have its rewards sometimes.
 
I hope you are all well and staying warm. Hope you have a wonderful and relaxing weekend. I'll see you all again on Monday.
27 enero

FREE!!!

 

What is FREE? When is something free? When is it not? What are your thoughts on FREE stuff you're offered? Lately, I have had to re-think the matter.

I have always been of the opinion that if someone offered me something - free, then they should give it to me. Period. End of subject. Just bring it to my house, send it by a friend, or send it in the mail. I even jumped up on my famous "high-horse" several times when I dutifully followed instructions, filled out forms, and gave all the pertinent information in order to receive something free. Why? Because the final step required me to send $4.95 to cover postage/shipping & handling.

"WHAT?! $4.95 to cover postage? Well, that's not free," I shout indignantly at my computer screen. "Huh, well I never!" I grab my "high-horse" firmly by the reign and back myself out of their "FREE" stuff offer site. On to something else.

Then, just after Thanksgiving I decided to give away copies of my book, the one I finished last March that's stored in boxes under my coffee table. Yes, my first and only published book. I made a list of people to send my book to "FREE" and got busy packaging and addressing them for mailing. At the post office, it hit me like a ton-of-bricks. That's when the famous trio, me, myself, and I had the conversation of our ignorant lives.

I said to myself, "Girl, how many books do you think you're going to give away at this rate?"

Me, I was thinking a mile a minute, at (Yeah, here it is) $4.95 per book, if you give away any more you'll be in the 'po-house' this time tomorrow. Not the poor-house, but the real po-house.

By the time I reached the car, we had recovered from the shock. I got it! Never again will I question the FREE stuff with the $4.95 shipping & handling charge. I understand now. If I want it, I'll pay. If I'm too cheap to pay, then I will have to do without.

Lesson learned.
26 enero

Reblock Yourself the Polly Frost Way

 

DO ANY OF THESE SYMPTOMS FIT YOU?
• Blogaholism. Do you plot out your day so that it will generate as many blog postings as possible?

• Twitteritis. Did you Twitter this morning as you made your morning coffee? And then later as you trimmed your toenails?

• Reviewing Addiction. Do you spend every lunch hour pumping up your ranking as an Amazon reader-reviewer?

• RSS Dependency. Did you simplify your life by subscribing to RSS feeds only to discover yourself spending more time than ever commenting at blogs?

• Status Update Disorder. Have you made plans to self-publish a collection of your Facebook Status Updates?

If so, you’re almost certainly suffering from from one of the great underdiagnosed ailments of our time. That’s right, you may well have ... Unblocked Writer Syndrome.

But not to worry. The solution is at hand. READ MORE

Find more information and articles at Arts & Letters Daily
22 enero

Goodies Galore

I found this wonderful blog A Frugal Friend . . ."for old friends and new friends interested in saving money through coupons, rebates, freebies and deals!" The site is updated frequently and it is loaded with deals of all kinds, coupons for just about everyting we use on a daily basis, and rebate offers.Visit a Frugal Friend if you are interested in saving money and having fun while you do it.

A Frugal Friend introduced a site where you earn points called swagbucks for simply searching the web using SwagBucks.com. I do a lot of web research so I'm trying it out. It's fun and interesting to see the swagbucks add up. The swagbucks can be redeemed for gift certificates to Amazon, Starbucks, electronics and much more. If you search the web much you can register at SwagBucks.com and start earning your rewards today.

Give SwagBucks a try and don't forget to visit A Frugal Friend, you're in for a delightful surprise.
17 enero

Cleaning House

I log on to go visiting, reading and commenting. My friends list catches my eye first. Ummm...that's a whole lot of people, let's see who's up in here and what's up with them. Needless to say, over half of the names there have never visited my page, never left a comment, never nothing. Just invited me to be friends, added me to the list of 15,000 other people and went on about their merry way. That's facebook and twitter. I'm here in spaces for friends. Friends. Not a number on a list.

Funny part is...some of them got clicked 'yes' by accident, then I didn't want to be rude and go delete them. So, I left things as they were. I must admit I kept hoping against hope that one fine day they would pop by and say a quick hello. Didn't happen. That answered my...what do people do with 8,555,621 friends. Nothing. That's what I thought but, I'm an optomist.

Anyway, I got busy cleaning out and emptying names from my address book, contact list, and every other nook and cranny I could find. What a mess! I won't do that again.
 
So, here's the deal. If you find that I have not visited you (and we are and have been in regular contact) and I come up missing from your list -- PLEASE LET ME KNOW. I did not intentionally delete anyone who visits and comments on my space or in my guestbook.

Wheeeew...I'd better go check and see how much damage I did.

Have a good Sunday, I'll see you soon.
16 enero

Happy Birthday, Jordyn!

Happy Birthday Sweet Jordyn!

On this day somewhere back in time

God smiled on me and Papa Shank.

He said, "I'm sending you some sunshine,

a whole lot of joy, and a treasure beyond compare!

Take care of her, love her, and above all

enjoy her. But, remember she is mine."

With that in mind we welcomed

the world's #1 daughter, our one and only -

Jordyn.

I love you, my little 'chic-a-dee'.

15 enero

Nothing Much . . .

I had said I wouldn't blog today, been busy getting paperwork and receipts sorted and ready to do income taxes. That's a humongous job around here. Receipts are crumpled and balled into tight little wads stuck between phone book pages, inside envelopes, crammed into sock drawers, and other places one would never imagine. I DID do a pretty fair job this past year of keeping the ones I found in a safe place and stapled and paperclipped in bunches.
 
So, this year I'm much farther along than in previous years. I'm making sure we don't have to file for an extension this time (fingers crossed...I hope...if I can learn to "nag") and get "mr. him" to stop procrastinating. I'm going to google 'how to nag'. He's been getting off too easy.  
 
Enough of that. So, I'm playing a little hookie here, taking turns between inputting data on the spreadsheet, sorting and stapling, and making a great big mess in the middle of the room to go blog hopping. I've been by some of your spaces already, I'll see the rest of you between sessions.
 
Tomorrow is Jordyn's birthday, gotta figure what I can do to surprise her. She's been working some long hard hours since the new year started. That girl is getting old, I don't feel like she should be that old. Most days I don't feel real old until the bones and joints remind me.
 
I hope you have a nice warm Friday and a relaxing and peaceful week end.
14 enero

I Got "Scammed"

The harder I tried to get to blogging today, the more things I found I needed to do around the house before I could. By the time I logged on and found my space, I realized CNN is repeating itself like a broken record. I'm referring to "Bernie Madoff, accused of what could be the largest Ponzi scheme ever" and "the guy who supposedly tried to kill himself after scamming hundreds of people", I feel for their victims. I wish both would be sent straight to jail-prison-chain-gang-the-whole-nine-yards without passing go and without collecting $200.00.
 
I learned my lesson the hard way many many years ago. If it sounds too good to be true, IT IS! Way back in the days before computers, email, and text messages I received this handwritten letter from a friend, a real live person I had grown up with. The letter looked innocent enough and started out all friendly and interesting. Before I knew what happened things went south.
 
My friend, Emillie June said, "Let's do our own version of the 'old chain letter'. Instead of sending this to strangers we'll send it to friends only. And, instead of asking for money, we'll ask for and send out dish towels. All you (that's ME, dellgirl) have to do is send a dish towel to "ME" (that's her - Emillie June) and send a dish towel to the next 4 people on the list along with this letter. Then add five more of your friends names to the bottom of the list. Pretty soon you will have lots and lots of dish towels, probably enough to start a store with.  
 
Skeptic that I am, I pondered long and hard about this. Finally I thought, what the heck. What's 5 measley dish towels amoung friends...I can get a bundle of dish towels at the dollar store for a couple of bucks. I did (after careful consideration)...and I waited for my dish towels to arrive in the mail.
 
I'm still waiting...
 
And, that's why people like Bernie and the death faking guy would never be able to convince me to invest in anything - no matter how good they made it sound.
11 enero

Goodness and Marcy

I'm back from frolicking and covorting but not together enough to think of blogging yet. Until then enjoy the following. I had to smile when I read it.


A mom was concerned about her kindergarten son walking to school.  He didn't want his mother to walk with him.
 
She wanted to give him the feeling that he had some independence but yet know that he was safe.  So, she had an idea of how to handle it.
 
She asked a neighbor if she would please follow him to school in the mornings, staying at a distance, so he probably wouldn't notice her.  She said that since she was up early with her toddler anyway, it would be a good way for them to get some exercise as well, so she agreed. The next school day, the neighbor and her little girl set out following behind Timmy as he walked to school with another neighbor girl he knew.She did this for the whole week.  As the two walked and chatted, kicking stones and twigs, Timmy's little friend noticed the same lady was following them as she seemed to do every day all week.
 
Finally she said to Timmy, 'Have you noticed that lady following us to school all week?  Do you know her?'
 
Timmy nonchalantly replied, 'Yeah, I know who she is.'
 
The little girl said, 'Well, who is she?'
 
'That's just Shirley Goodnest,' Timmy replied, 'and her daughter Marcy.'  'Shirley Goodnest? Who is she and why is she following us?'  'Well,' Timmy explained, 'every night my Mom makes me say the 23rd Psalm with my prayers, 'cuz she worries about me so much.  And in the Psalm, it says, 'Shirley Goodnest and Marcy shall follow me all the days of my life', so I guess I'll just have to get used to it!'
 
 May Shirley Goodnest and Marcy be with you today and always.

05 enero

Searching for Wilkins Family Descendants

 I am a descendant of Frank Mason & Katie Loubertha (Harper) Wilkins.

They were from Campti, Louisiana or Colfax, Grant, Louisiana. Katie Loubertha (Harper) Wilkins was born around October 1879. She and Frank Mason were married in 1898. I do not know Frank Mason's DOB yet.

My father was Hermes (Hermise) Mason Wilkins who moved to Jasper, Texas as a boy and lived there until his death in 1988.

I am searching for descendants of Katie Loubertha & Frank or of their children.

Children born to: Mrs. K. L. Wilkins and F. M. Wilkins as follows:
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
Alvin C. Wilkins - born July 25, 1899. Died June 29, 1900.
Gwendoline Alberta Desire Wilkins - born Easter Sunday, April 7, 1901.
Chauncey M. Depew Wilkins - born November 26, 1902. Died October 1973.
Murat Halstead Wilkins - born Tuesday September 13, 1904. Died January 6, 1975.
Jervey DeForrest Wilkins - born December 23, 1906.
Frank Mason Wilkins Jr. - born Sunday July 11, 1909. Died Sunday August 8, 1909.
A baby boy – born and died Saturday July 7, 1910.
Zenobia Wilkins - born Thursday July 11, 1912. Died Tuesday December 31, 1912.
Elmer M. Wilkins - born Wednesday. March 5, 1914. Died February 3, 1970.
Addie Lily Jennie Wilkins - born Tuesday. June 27, 1916.
Hermes Mason Wilkins - born Thursday. July 25, 1918. Died September 3, 1988.
Scipio Nesbert Mason Wilkins - born Friday June 24, 1921. Died July 6, 1970.
Richard Keatts Wilkins - born March 24, 1924. Died Sunday June 22, 1924.
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Please contact me if you are a descendant. You may post any information you have in the comments section. I appreciate any and all information as I have started a Wilkins Family website and have very little to go on.

I look forward to seeing how this goes.

04 enero

Slap Yo' Mama

First thing today, I start dinner even though I don't want to cook - at all. Of course, "no cook, no eat" so, I have to cook if I want to eat. Ummm...now what's quick to make and good going down? I've got it, baked chicken, mashed potatoes, green salad, hot cornbread, and orange juice.

I grab the egg timer and set it for 20 minutes. This first Sunday of the new year I vow to have dinner simmering when that timer goes off. I will not be held hostage in the kitchen fiddling and diddling like a knight in shining metal armour.

At the end of the twenty minutes I'm done, the meat is seasoned and in the oven, potatoes are peeled and boiling, and the fixings for the green salad are ready in the fridge. I don't remember doing it this fast in...ummm, I don't know when. Cornbread is in the oven too. Wow, I should do this more often. Cleaning out the fridge can wait, that stuff is not going anywhere.

With a few minutes left before the chicken is ready I decide to mop it with bar-b-que sauce for an added kick. Mop mop mop, pop it back in the oven so the sauce can sink in. Take the cornbread out, it's ready. Timer time again! Ten minutes ought to do it.

As I check the chicken before covering it, I turn a couple of pieces over to make sure bar-b-que sauce is spread evenly on both sides. Man-n-n, this meat's so tender it's falling apart, can't even pick it up with tongs. Oh well, just a taste to make sure it's good. Lick lick lick, gotta get it off my fingers.

Unn-um-ummm...mannnn...this chicken is so good it'll make you want to "slap-yo'-mama"!!!

I'll eat later, it's ready when I am.